I am tired of women fretting about whether they "have a voice in the church". Heck, I don't have a voice in the church. So what? This isn't a grassroots church, it is a church by revelation. If you want grassroots, that is what the other churches all are. "They teach for doctrines the commandments of men." (JS-H 1:19).
I wish those women who obsess about that were more concerned about how much voice they have in their children's lives. Children are inundated with things pulling them away from the truth. If you want influence, influence those God gave you and asked you to please influence with all your might to come unto Christ and be perfected in him. In the end, that will be the influence that mattered.